thoughts on theories of sexual misconduct

The obsession with homosexuaality/bisexuaality/queerness generally is a neurosis that seems unjustified if you look at the Bible. Fornication seems like it is more of a priority and is mentioned over 100 times, while homosexuality is mentioned under 10 times. Aside from homophobia being bad for everyone in society because of setting a standard of limiting civil rights and freedom, promoting intolerance and closed-mindedness, self-righteousness, rigid constructs of gender that define and confine women to a class of domestic servants who bear children in the service of men who determine the course of society, the unacceptability of hate, homosexuality does not look like a to priority to God. Promiscuity as a principle looks like aa much more serious concern. So why don't we as a society privilege chastity over promiscuity not heterosexuaality over homosexuality.